5 Ways You Won’t Find Love: Dating Mistakes Prince Charming Hates
Girl meets guy. Guy thinks girl is cute. Guy and Girl start to date. Girl thinks everything is amazing. Guy all of a sudden avoids girl. Girl is confused/heartbroken/in denial.
Enter: Heartbroken Girl
Exit: Prince Charming
Lets revisit a story.. Cinderella, she danced with Prince C, lost her shoe, and had to leave FAST. Prince Charming meanwhile had a bone(r) to pick with her. He was besotted. Sound like a disaster? Not really, Cinderella worked her charm and her and Prince C lived happily ever after. There’s a lot you can learn from them too.
So here is my list of 5 Dating Mistakes Prince Charming Hates:
- Look For Prince Charming
What love story begins with a girl chasing the guy? Let love come to you, dont spoil it by spending all your time looking for “the one”. Prince Charming typically does his own thing anyway. He works on his education and career, enjoys playing beer pong and watching sports. Prince Charming has his own life and so should you. Be that girl who isn’t desperate and entertains any kretin that comes her way, let a good man find you.
- Think long term immediately with every guy you date
The definition of a relationship is just that: a relation and bond created between two people. It’s a bond that takes time, patience, compromise, and understanding. Time is the most important of the lot. Please don’t think long term with every Prince Charming candidate. You’re going to ruin the natural experience, and nothing is fun when forced. Have some patience, have some faith.
- Be available
Yes. I get it. You love it when he hits you up, you love it when you guys hook up, and you LOVE how much attention he’s giving you right now. Okay. Newsflash: Guys get bored. Fast. Now imagine that equation multipled tenfold when you’re overly available. Look guys, as much you want to be mad at me for ruining your game, you know it’s the truth. Girls, trust me, have your own life, don’t say “how high” when he asks you to jump, and trust me .. Prince Charming might just hit you up for a fourth and fifth date. Remember how Cinderella ran away, and Prince Charming’s panties were in a bunch until he found her? Yea, that’s what I thought.
- Be Too Nice
You know what type of nice I’m talking about. That type that makes him cupcakes on the second date, that cleans up his apartment a month in, the one that fraternizes with his mom on a regular basis. By being too nice, you are officially being annoying. Please be advised, I am not telling you to be mean to Prince Charming, but allow it to happen naturally. All good things happen in time, all nice things should happen in time as well
- Be someone you’re not
Don’t alter your tastes to fit a guy. There is nothing less attractive than that girl, the one that loves everything that you do – we’re talking basketball, football, history subjects, favorite movies .. If there are a lot of natural similarities, awesome! But if they’re not, don’t try to over impress Prince Charming by being falsely interested in everything he is. In contrast, also being the bitter chick who loves everything he hates doesn’t get you any love. JUST. BE. YOU. That’s all he wants at the end of the day.
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