Why I’m Thankful 21 Isn’t Forever After All

I kinda love the fact that I’m not 21 anymore. Trust me, turning 22 was terrible for about 70 seconds – all these thoughts kept rushing through my head, is the “peak” of my fun age finally over, as so many had warned me before? Then 70 seconds later, I decided it was all hogwash as I headed outside my room of my college apartment to take shots with my best friends. Now, a couple of years later, I think back to that girl that was 21. That girl had NO idea what life held in store for her, and that girl, like so many of you has probably changed and matured for all the RIGHT reasons.

1) I’ve Grown Up – In every sense of the word. My body has changed (praise curves!), my priorities have changed from things that aren’t worth it to wanting to spend time searching for my next career move or learning to cook. I no longer care about what people think about me, and I realize that the only happiness I’m concerned with should be mine.



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2) I Can Differentiate Boys From Men – This was a huge breakthrough for me. You kiss a fair share of toads in your time (and you’ll regress here and there but pay no mind to who doesn’t matter) and that’s okay. You’ve been through a couple of bad relationships. That’s okay too. What’s important is that you’ve learned exactly what you DON’T want. With age, comes experience, comes perspective. Now when you run into that “Mr. Perfect” who turns out to be a self-absorbed hypocritical douchebag, you may waver, but unlike you’re inner 21 year old, you’re not stressing or pining away for him – why? Because you know that’s not what you want or deserve.

Let’s Have a Toast For All The Douchebags..

3) I Realize I’m Not Invincible – The quicker you realize there are consequences to every action, the better. I, like many teenagers and twenty-somethings, went through this phase where I thought I could do or say no wrong. You quickly realize that every action comes with a price, my twenty-something year old now appreciates and understands that no one is invincible and to act with responsibility.

4) I Appreciate the Power of Family & True Friendship - By your later twenties, you will have gone through a couple of friendships, some may have faltered, some may have soared, and some have remained solid as God’s green earth. Appreciating the solidity and the loyalty behind these friendships is powerful, that is your support system. You’re family is the equivalent to the Pokemon Healing Centers, you know the one where no matter what shape you’re in, no matter how you feel, how weak you are, how sad or happy you are, you come back fully charged.. You’re family rejuvenates you, they are you’re true strength and backbone, and they will always be there to fuel and heal you in anyway.

5) I Never Say Never - I just don’t believe in “never”. Life is too quickly changing, people are brought in and taken out of our lives in seconds. We’re given experiences every single hour and day to deal with. To say “never” is to constrict yourself of something you may one day decide to do. To simplify, you have only one life to live, focus on learning, try everything just once, and smile while you do it (This is where it’s appropriate to say #yolo).

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6) I Now Value the Power of Closure & Communication - This has more to do with maturing through your age, than your actual age itself. So many people can drop others in a second due to anger, miscommunication, or other reasons they find justifying. This isn’t strength, this is immaturity. Tossing your ego away, and picking up the phone to sort and hash through you’re feelings is necessary in any situation. Why? It’s because we realize that life is too short for any discrepancy, if a situation is not meant to happen, owe it to yourself and to others to communicate and to provide the other with closure. That’s good karma.

7) I Don’t Stand For Games Or BS. Ever. - See, 21 year old Raji simply didn’t know what games were. She thought that interaction was supposed to be simple, and everyone was on the same page. Along the way and years, Raji has learned the difference between when someone is shooting the shit with her, or plain BSing her. It’s important to learn when someones pulling your chain or being real, simply because you need to drop the former, and stick to the latter. Also, being real isn’t being rude, so if someone is proud of their blunt but rude ways, that’s some BS aka we don’t stand for that either.

8) I Don’t Believe In Regrets - The phrase “What if” shouldn’t be in your vocabulary. Agreed this may be impulsive behavior, but if you want something, go for it, jump at it, and take it. If it works, you just went after something you wanted. If it doesn’t work, you will have went after something you wanted. You won’t know until you try. Listen to your heart, and leap at full speed. no regrets meme no regrets in life listen to your heart inspiration meme listen to heart meme someecards lifestyle blog fashion blog pretty please us blog twenty something post forever 21 post pretty please blog pretty please us blog

9) I Listen To My Heart - A part of me has always listened to my heart, but my younger self also listened to the riff raff. I’ve learned in time, that the only voice that matters is yours. People who presume to be your friends or family may try to tell you what to do or give you their two hundred cents, it doesn’t matter. As an adult, you learn that you form your own opinions, you have your own interactions, and you live life the way you want to live it. Listen to your heart. It’s priceless.



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Pretty Nails & Toesies: OPI’s Matte Russian Navy



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YES. We came, we saw, we DROOLED when we saw this fabulous picture in this Marie Claire article. It reminded us that matte nailpolish, when worn right is amazing! This polish is a part of the amazing Fall Suede Collection from 2009,  So when you want to take a break from all the pyschedllic neons and gorgeous pastels .. Grab OPI’s Russian Navy – which is a natural matte nailpolish – and try it out! You know we will ;)

PSSSST… Here are some more amazing photos of OPI’s Fall Suede Collection we found via juicy.mashkulture.net!

OPI Fall Suede Collection 2009



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Lincoln Park After Dark



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Russian Navy



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Suzi Skies In The Pyranees



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You Don’t Know Jacques



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Happy Birthday To Our Lovely Co-Blogger Himani!!!!!

GO GO GO GO .. GO HIMANI .. ITS YOUR BIRTHDAY .. WE GONNA PARTYYYY LIKE IT’S YOUR BIRTHDAY .. WE GONNA SIP BACARDI (optional or you may substitute for an alcohol of your choice) LIKE ITS YOUR BIRTHDAY .. AND YOU KNOW WE DON’T GIVE AN EFF WORD IF ITS YOUR BIRTHDAYYYYY .. 

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY COLLEGE ROOMATE/BESTFRIEND/CO-BLOGGER/BESTIE/LOVER/PARTNER-IN-CRIME/AMAZE-BALLS-FEMALE!!!!!
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In case you managed to miss the above message, it is Himani’s birthday! Himani likes long walks on the beach, designing baller Wedding Party Apps like this, this guy named Aju, blogging for PrettyPlease (DUH!), and having a good time! Happy Birthday Kiddo, you rock!

The Only Summer Accessory You Need: Headbands!

The first time I wore a headband, I was in 1st grade. Mi madre dropped some knowledge on me, she said “Headbands keep your hair in place, and make your hair look damn good!” Okay, maybe she didn’t say “Damn”. But she did introduce me to headbands, ever since then I’ve been obsessed with this accessory. Imagine my excitement when the entire bohemian-chic look got reinstated a little while ago .. all my headbands were finally going to be put to good use!



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Thats me! I’m Raji, one half of the amazing PrettyPlease duo, and yes, I’m addicted to headbands. I’m especially feeling the style right now, floral headbands, worn sideways, that work with messy and styled hair. I absolutely DIE for this Ivy leaf headband from Eddera (best worn by Kourtney Kardashian below):



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Here are some headband looks I compiled that look absolutely GORGEOUS!

  • Kourtney Kardashian Ivy Leaf



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And The Winner Of The biKa swimwear Cover Up Is…



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Ashley O! (picked using random.org)

Congratulations Ashley! :)

Thank you to everyone else who participated! And a huge thanks to AmbiKa of  bikabazaar.com for offering such a beautiful and unique piece for our giveaway. Stay tuned for our next giveaway in the next couple of weeks!

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Say Hello to Summer with BiKa Swimwear and Enter Our Very First Giveaway!

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We’re so excited to announce our very first giveaway :)

Summer is officially here and we’re ready to get our tan on by the pool! We’ve been busy getting our wardrobe ready for the summer which consists of bathing suits, bathing suits and more bathing suits. And we’re happy to share that we have discovered a new place to get out shopping fix called biKA Swimwear. They carry the most beautiful, exotic and trendy bathing suits/cover ups!

And lucky for you, AmbiKa, the designer of biKA swimwear is giving away this gorgeous handmade cover up that’s going to keep you looking stylish by the poolside.









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biKa swimwear Manorama cover up -  $220

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Facebook, It’s Not You, It’s Me: Why Facebook Fails to Tickle Our Pickle

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Facebook, you’re hot. Really you are..

It’s just that .. well .. I don’t feel the same anymore. Once upon a time, I’d excitedly check my computer to see who added me as a friend, who wrote on my wall, or what event was going on.. even when I got my iPhone, I was razzed up – pop up notifications? Heck yea! Three people wrote on my wall .. sickkkkk!!! But that was then .. this is now. Facebook, I adore you but I think we might have to take a break .. (read: major time apart aka I am going to slore it up on different social media websites), and I’m sorry. I know you need closure, so here’s why I’m taking a step back from you:

  • Photos With 19,347,032 Likes
You know exactly what I’m talking about Facebook. The photos where if I like a picture of a little boy, someone will feed him for an extra day, or if I like a picture of a bunny it’ll happily hop forever. These photos create guilt within me, Facebook. Yesterday, I liked a photo I didn’t even like because it said “Like if you love your mom”. Obviously I love my mom, she’s a nifty creature, but I could have lived without the guilt. I now feel compelled to like these modern day chain letters, and I don’t like it one bit. It’s to the point where I scroll as fast as I can if I see a photo with 10,000 likes in fears of waking up whatever hoax it contains. Meh.
  • “Like”s Aren’t Titillating Anymore 
Likes were really exciting. REALLY exciting when they first came out. I remember the first time I got 11 likes on a status. It was a status about going to the beach in LA. Yup, I would have liked it too because well, I like the beach, and I like LA. Nowadays, people change their profile photos like they change underwear hoping for new daily likes. Everyone’s magically turned into a freaking photographer, and showcase their mobile uploads as the next work of art. The worst is when I write on someones wall, they respond, I respond, and we go back and forth and like every single one of each others comments. No I take it back, the worst is that I expect the other person and vice versa to like everything. Facebook, you’ve made “liking” a wee bit played out.
  • Timeline Has Visually Impaired Me 
I used to be able to go on my friends page, scroll down to see comments, photo albums, newly made friends, or any new page likes in a reasonable, fashionable order. I’m really not anal-retentive either, btw. I wake up late, hit snooze about 20 times, and fist pump Continue reading



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